DIGITAL PARENTING DILEMMA: ‘SPARE THE ROD, SPOIL THE CHILD’ DEBATE SPARKS MIXED REACTIONS

One of the most contentious discussions centered on alternative discipline techniques. Some parents admitted that raising children in today’s fast-paced, economically challenging environment makes it difficult to manage emotions effectively. “At times, we are too overwhelmed to stay in control. If you resort to beating, you might end up harming the child instead of correcting them. It’s better to explore other disciplinary approaches,” said Gladys, one of the participants.

However, others argued that abandoning the rod entirely could be dangerous, especially in the digital age, where children are exposed to complex influences at an early age. “Our children get exposed way too early and talking to them might not even work, at times we are compelled to inflict some pain to control them,” said another parent who supported the motion.

As the debate continued, it became clear that parenting in the digital era is vastly different from traditional approaches. The discussion highlighted the need for love, care, and a strong parent- child relationship in navigating modern challenges. Summing up the discussion, Rev. Fr. Dr. Odomaro Mubangizi, SJ, the workshop’s key facilitator, emphasized: “The ultimate goal is for parents to support the children to form healthy identities in a highly dynamic world.”